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Is it better to be single?
Today is a special day for many people around the world. It just so happens that Singles Day falls on 11.11.11 - some think that this special 'coincidence' will make today a particularly lucky day for those 'unfortunates' who are single. But how unfortunate really are these 'single' people? Is it so bad to be single?
Too many people are in a hurry to find their 'Mr Right'. They think that happiness and fulfillment can only be found in love with the opposite sex. But is this true? Do you absolutely need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
What about you? Are you single? If so, are you in a hurry to get 'hitched up'? And if you're not single, do you sometimes wish you were?
I look forward to reading your comments.
Comments
Sun, 12/18/2011 - 14:52
I do not in a hurry to find my Mr.right, but in some special day sometimes I would feel pity for myself to be a single when so many couples around the campus . And I would enjoy the single life ,for something would change when you are not a single any more.
Mon, 12/12/2011 - 23:36
I am single.
I have seen such words previously ：if you are not happy when you are a single,you will not happy when you with somebody.happiness depends on yourself，not a boyfriend/girlfriend.
Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.Single gives you space to grow. It is harder to grow when you are too close to someone.
Single means you have more time to care for other people. Single means freedom.Be single，you will learn how to live independently.it is beneficial to your future.
Mon, 12/12/2011 - 13:32
Of course I think single is worse. If you are not single ,you can comunicate with your "partner",you can get more knowledge than you are single.
Sun, 12/11/2011 - 23:54
Yeah, to be a single is good, it is freedom.
Sun, 12/11/2011 - 21:30
I think it's good whether to be single or not.Sometime I will want be stay single because it can leave me times to do what I want without bothering by others.But sometime i feel lonely and really want someone being here.
Sun, 12/11/2011 - 16:44
I think that people hurry to get rid of being single is stupid.Whatever,following our hearts is the most important thing.
Sat, 12/10/2011 - 12:39
I don't care about it。。。。
Fri, 12/09/2011 - 22:14
2011.11.11, what a special day.haha. As for me, I am still single. Maybe I don't meet my "Mr Right. Sometime, be singe is ok,which has more freedom.
Fri, 12/09/2011 - 10:47
I think single is ok
Thu, 12/08/2011 - 14:45
It's better to not be single.i want a partner acompany with me when i feel lonely
Sun, 12/04/2011 - 14:01
It is really better to be single.There is no things disturbing your heart.You can ease your heart to study,and you can spend a lot of time with your frends.So I think to be single is OK!
Sun, 12/04/2011 - 12:46
I just want to say: different people have different opinions.
Fri, 12/02/2011 - 12:39
Of course,to be single is good.Becuse we do not need think about others.We can do what we want to do.It is full of freedom in our life.
Thu, 12/01/2011 - 18:03
The time when we study in university is very precious and limited,so i think it's better to be single during this period.
Tue, 11/29/2011 - 11:00
Some people said that love make a person beautiful and enthusiastic,however,young men/women,in the process of struggling for the career in the future,love may become the stumbling block on your road.During college time we should have aspired more things than love and romance such as knowledge,ability and ideality.So don't spent your precious youth on writing love letters,sending roses and wooing tiresomely.
Lollygagging is a guilty.
Sat, 11/26/2011 - 12:14
The single have more freedom and more energy to pursue their dreams.If I fall in love with a person,I will make some sacrefies to addapt his dream to enable we struggle for the common dream.Before the right person appears ,the single should treture the freedom and live for ourselves.
Sat, 11/26/2011 - 00:15
I think it is better to be single. Because you have more free time to do what you like.
Wed, 11/23/2011 - 12:37
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, usually spend you must energy to deal with this relationship. If two people argue, you will be feeling down, which affect the your study and life. To some day, you'll have to spend idea to consider what are present.
Tue, 11/22/2011 - 18:24
At this special moment,I just want to stay with the people who love me and who I love,then I will be the most happiest one around the world.Therefore,I won't be single.My dad and my mom will always stay with me.
Mon, 11/21/2011 - 11:17
yes.
I CAN do whatever I LIKE without worrying about another person.
Sat, 11/19/2011 - 22:54
I am single but i am not hurry to find someone to accompany with me.i think single is ok,i enjoy my life,i can do everything i like.But someone told me that if you have not a boyfriend in eniversity, you will be regret. actually, i am not sure,weather i will feel regret in the future,but i am sure i like my a single life.
Sat, 11/19/2011 - 19:31
I have been single since I was born.Yes,I never go with any boy until now.I am anticipating a romantic encounter with my Mr. Right.Although I am singie,I feel happy beacause I have families and friends.And I have enough personal time to do so many things I enjoy.Anyway, I will never love a boy out of loneliness.
Fri, 11/18/2011 - 21:27
Firstly,I think everyone will feel lonely when he or she is a single person.
Secondly,fiendship cannot take place of love.
Thirdly,falling in love can make we grow up together emotionly.
The last but not the lest,love is attractive!
Fri, 11/18/2011 - 11:32
It is like reading books,you won't read the same only book forever.You will change diffent kinds of books to read and learn all your whole life.
But in this question,I always think that to be single didn't mean your are alone,it exactly did,right?You have friends,teachers,parents and relatives,part of them will be with you in your different time.It is not just boyfriend or girlfriend who can talk with you,be with you and be happy with you!Life is rich and full we have so many many things to pursuit and worth to spend time with,it will be a pity if you narrow it just love between girls and boys by yourself and forgive and abandon others.
Haha,but I admit that I will just enjoy the one same only book which I think a really good book which gleam in my mind.but all this after when I have read so many books and I maybe pay most concern of it but I still read others,little or more.So,just let it be nature and what we should do is not think it to much and when you like the book,read it!If not,put it away.The world is so big and even the library in our college has such many books,there are so many you can spend your time to enjoy it.
But who know weather you just like reading the same only one unique book?haha~~~~~~~be happy~~~~~!!
Thu, 11/17/2011 - 23:00
Em.. Maybe it depends. Being single is wonderful coz you can enjoy the time of being one and freedom. On the other, having a girlfriend or boyfriend is wonderful as well since you will not feel lonely. It is hard to make a conclusion; but now I enjoy being single.:)
Thu, 11/17/2011 - 12:01
Everthing have two side.Now i find i'm used to being a single,Doing everything by myself,i think many people is same as me.if i can become a double. i will not want to be a single,but i have no chance to choose.so i have to face the fact.
Wed, 11/16/2011 - 16:48
Now I exceedingly enjoy bachelor.Maybe a Mr.Right would give you hands when you are in trouble and accompany you whenever you feel unhappy.But it's ok to be single.And you can be more free from emtional problems and have much more time to focus more attention on your study as far as possible.
Wed, 11/16/2011 - 16:08
As for me,I chose to be single.Because I can not deal with my study and my love.Now ,I am single.I can summon up my energy for the task.
Mon, 11/14/2011 - 23:16
everything has both advantage and disadvantage.being single can save much more time for other things.on the contrary,with a boyfriend/girlfriend,many wonderful things can be shared.
Mon, 11/14/2011 - 22:53
as for me , i think when you are a single ,you want to found a boy to accompany you eagerly. however , when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend ,you want to be alone . that's because people didn't content with what they possess now.